From: Judy Gustafson <judy@halcyon.com>
Date: Fri, 03 Jan 1997 16:17:03 -0800
Subject: How to be Pack Leader - part 1 (LONG)
- ----This article was written by Vicki Rodenberg, Chairman of the Chow
Chow
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This is a long article, but it is so wonderful I thought I'd share
it here.
This is part 1 of 2.
WHO'S IN CHARGE HERE?
A lesson in becoming Alpha
"My dog just tried to bite me! All I did was tell him to move
over so I could
sit on the couch next to him."
"My dog got into the trash can and when I scolded her, she growled at
me.
What's wrong with her? I thought she loved me!"
"Our dog is very affectionate most of the time but when we try to make
him do
something he doesn't want to do, he snaps at us."
What do these three dogs have in common? Are they nasty or downright
vicious?
No - they're "alpha". They've taken over the leadership
of the families that
love them. Instead of taking orders from their people, these
dogs are giving
orders! Your dog can love you very much and still try to dominate
you or
other members of your family.
Dogs are social creatures and believers in social order. A dog's
social
system is a "pack" with a well-defined pecking order. The leader
of the pack
is the alpha, supreme boss, Top Dog. He (or she) gets the best
of everything
- - the best food, the best place to sleep, the best toy, etc.
The leader also
gets to be first in everything - he gets to eat first, to leave first
and to
get attention first. All the other dogs in the pack respect the
alpha dog's
wishes. Any dog that challenges the alpha's authority gets a
swift physical
reminder of just where his place in the pack really is.
Your family is your dog's "pack". Many dogs fit easily into the
lower levels
of their human pack's pecking order and don't make waves. They
do what
they're told and don't challenge authority. Other dogs don't
fit in quite as
well. Some of them are natural born leaders and are always challenging
their
human alpha's. Other dogs are social climbers - they're always
looking for
ways to get a little closer to the top of the family ladder. These
natural
leaders and the social climbers can become problems to an unsuspecting
family
that's not aware of the dog's natural pack instincts.
Some families encourage their dogs to take over the "pack" without realizing
it. They treat their dogs as equals, not as subordinates. They
give them
special privileges like being allowed to sleep on the bed or couch.
They
don't train their dogs and let them get away with disobeying commands.
In a
real dog pack, no one but the alpha dog would get this kind of treatment.
Alpha doesn't have anything to do with size. The tiniest Chihuahua
can be a
canine Hitler. In fact, the smaller the dog, the more people
tend to baby
them and cater to them - making the dog feel even more dominant and
in control
of his humans.
Alpha dogs often seem to make good pets. They're confident, smarter
than
average, and affectionate. They can be wonderful with children
and good with
strangers. Everything seems to be great with the relationship
- until someone
crosses him or makes him do something he doesn't want to do.
Then, suddenly,
this wonderful dog growls or tries to bite someone and no one understands
why.
In a real dog pack, the alpha dog doesn't have to answer to anyone.
No one
gives him orders or tells him what to do. The other dogs in the
pack respect
his position. If another dog is foolish enough to challenge the
alpha by
trying to take his bone or his favorite sleeping place, the alpha dog
will
quickly put him in his place with a hard stare or a growl. If
this doesn't
work, the alpha dog will enforce his leadership with his teeth.
This is all
natural, instinctive behavior - in a dog's world. In a human
family, though,
this behavior is unacceptable and dangerous.
Dogs need and want leaders. They have an instinctive need to fit
into a pack.
They want the security of knowing their place and what's expected
of them.
Most of them don't want to be alpha - they want someone else to give
the
orders and make the decisions. If his humans don't provide that
leadership,
the dog will take over the role himself. If you've allowed your
dog to become
alpha, you're at his mercy and as a leader, he may be either a benevolent
king
or a tyrant!
If you think your dog is alpha in your household, he probably is.
If your dog
respects only one or two members of the family but dominates the others,
you
still have a problem. The dog's place should be at the -bottom-
of your human
family's pack order, not at the top or somewhere in between.
In order to reclaim your family's rightful place as leaders of the pack,
your
dog needs some lessons in how to be a subordinate, not an equal.
You're going
to show him what it means to be a dog again. Your dog's mother showed
him very
early in life that -she- was alpha and that he had to respect her.
As a
puppy, he was given a secure place in his litter's pack and because
of that
security, he was free to concentrate on growing, learning, playing,
loving and
just being a dog. Your dog doesn't really want the responsibility of
being
alpha, having to make the decisions and defend his position at the
top. He
wants a leader to follow and worship so he can have the freedom of
just being
a dog again.
How to become leader of your pack:
Your dog watches you constantly and reads your body language.
He knows if
you're insecure, uncomfortable in a leadership role or won't enforce
a
command. This behavior confuses him, makes -him- insecure and
if he's a
natural leader or has a social-climbing personality, it'll encourage
him to
assume the alpha position and tell -you- what to do.
"Alpha" is an attitude. It involves quiet confidence, dignity,
intelligence,
an air of authority. A dog can sense this attitude almost immediately
- it's
how his mother acted towards him. Watch a professional trainer
or a good
obedience instructor. They stand tall and use their voices and
eyes to
project the idea that they're capable of getting what they want.
They're
gentle but firm, loving but tough, all at the same time. Most
dogs are
immediately submissive towards this type of personality because they
recognize
and respect alpha when they see it.
Practice being alpha. Stand up straight with your shoulders back.
Walk tall.
Practice using a new tone of voice, one that's deep and firm.
Don't ask your
dog to do something - tell him. There's a difference. He knows
the
difference, too! Remember that, as alpha, you're entitled to
make the rules
and give the orders. Your dog understands that instinctively.
With most dogs, just this change in your attitude and an obedience training
course will be enough to turn things around. With a dog that's
already taken
over the household and has enforced his position by growling or biting
and has
been allowed to get away with it, you'll need to do more than just
decide to
be alpha. The dog is going to need an attitude adjustment as
well.
Natural leaders and social climbers aren't going to want to give up
their
alpha position. Your sudden change in behavior is going to shock
and threaten
them. Your dog might act even more aggressively than before.
An alpha dog
will instinctively respond to challenges to his authority. It's
his nature to
want to put down revolutionary uprisings by the peasants! Don't
worry,
there's a way around it.
An alpha dog already knows that he can beat you in a physical fight
so
returning his aggression with violence of your own won't work.
Until you've
successfully established your position as alpha, corrections like hitting,
shaking, or using the "rollover" techniques described in some books
will not
work and can be downright dangerous to you. An alpha dog will
respond to
these methods with violence and you could be seriously hurt.
What you need to do is use your -brain- ! You're smarter than
he is and you
can out think him. You'll also need to be stubborner than he
is. What I'm
about to describe here is an effective, non-violent method of removing
your
dog from alpha status and putting him back at the bottom of the family
totem
pole where he belongs and where he needs to be. In order for
this method to
work, your whole family has to be involved. It requires an attitude
adjustment from everyone and a new way of working with your dog.
This is serious business. A dog that bites or threatens people
is a dangerous
dog, no matter how much you love him. If treating your dog like
a dog and not
an equal seems harsh to you, keep in mind that our society no longer
tolerates
dangerous dogs. Lawsuits from dog bites are now settling for millions
of
dollars - you could lose your home and everything else you own if your
dog
injures someone. You or your children could be permanently disfigured.
And
your dog could lose his life. That's the bottom line.
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From: Judy Gustafson <judy@halcyon.com>
Date: Fri, 03 Jan 1997 16:17:10 -0800
Subject: How to be Pack Leader - part 2
Who's In Charge?
PART 2:
Canine Boot Camp for Alpha Attitude Adjustment
>From this day forward, you're going to teach your dog that he is a
dog, not a
miniature human being in a furry suit. His mother taught him
how to be a dog
once and how to take orders. Along the way, through lack of training
or
misunderstood intentions, he's forgotten. With your help, he's going
to
remember what he is and how he fits into the world. Before long,
he's even
going to like it!
Dogs were bred to look to humans for food, companionship and guidance.
An
alpha dog doesn't ask for what he wants, he demands it. He lets
you know in
no uncertain terms that he wants his dinner, that he wants to go out,
that he
wants to play and be petted and that he wants these things right now.
You're
going to teach him that from now on, he has to earn what he gets.
No more
free rides. This is going to be a shock to his system at first
but you'll be
surprised how quickly he'll catch on and that he'll actually become
eager to
please you.
If your dog doesn't already know the simple command SIT, teach it to
him.
Reward him with praise and a tidbit. Don't go overboard with
the praise. A
simple "Good boy!" in a happy voice is enough. Now, every time
your dog wants
something - his dinner, a trip outside, a walk, some attention, anything
-
tell him (remember don't ask him, tell him) to SIT first. When he does,
praise
him with a "Good Boy!", then tell him OKAY and give him whatever it
is he
wants as a reward. If he refuses to SIT, walk away and ignore him.
No SIT, no
reward. If you don't think he understands the command, work on his
training
some more. If he just doesn't want to obey, ignore him - don't
give him what
he wants or reward him in any fashion.
Make him sit before giving him his dinner, make him sit at the door
before
going outside, make him sit in front of you to be petted, make him
sit before
giving him his toy. If you normally leave food out for him all
the time,
stop. Go to a twice daily feeding and you decide what time of
day he'll be
fed. Make him sit for his dinner. If he won't obey the
command - no dinner.
Walk away and ignore him. Bring the food out later and tell him
again to SIT.
If he understands the command, don't tell him more than once.
He heard you
the first time. Give commands from a standing position and use
a deep, firm
tone of voice.
If the dog respects certain members of the family but not others, let
the
others be the ones to feed him and bring the good things to his life
for now.
Show them how to make him obey the SIT command and how to walk away
and ignore
him if he won't do as he's told. It's important that your whole
family
follows this program. Dogs are like kids - if they can't have their
way with
Mom, they'll go ask Dad. In your dog's case, if he finds a member
of the
family that he can dominate, he'll continue to do so. You want
your dog to
learn that he has to respect and obey everyone. Remember - his
place is at
the bottom of the totem pole. Bouncing him from the top spot
helps but if he
thinks he's anywhere in the middle, you're still going to have problems.
Think - you know your dog and know what he's likely to do under most
circumstances. Stay a step ahead of him and anticipate his behavior
so you
can avoid or correct it. If he gets into the trash and growls
when scolded,
make the trash can inaccessible. If he likes to bolt out the door ahead
of
you, put a leash on him. Make him sit and wait while you open the door
and
give him permission - OKAY! - to go out. If your alpha dog doesn't
like to
come when he's called (and he probably doesn't!), don't let him outside
off
leash. Without a leash, you have no control over him and he knows it.
Petting and attention: Alpha dogs are used to being fussed over.
In a real
dog pack, subordinate dogs are forever touching, licking and grooming
the
alpha dog. It's a show of respect and submission. For now, until
his attitude
has shown improvement, cut down on the amount of cuddling your dog
gets. When
he wants attention, make him SIT first, give him a few kind words and
pats,
then stop. Go back to whatever it was you were doing and ignore him.
If he
pesters you, tell him NO! in a firm voice and ignore him some more.
Pet him
when you want to, not just because he wants you to. Also, for
the time being,
don't get down on the floor or on your knees to pet your dog. That,
too, is a
show of submission. Give praise, petting and rewards from a position
that's
higher than the dog.
Games: If you or anyone in your family wrestles, rough-houses
or plays tug of
war with your dog, stop! These games encourage dogs to
dominate people
physically and to use their teeth. In a dog pack or in a litter,
these games
are more than just playing - they help to establish pack order based
on
physical strength. Your dog is already probably stronger and
quicker than you
are. Rough, physical games prove that to him. He doesn't
need to be reminded
of it!
Find new games for him to play. Hide & seek, fetch or frisbee
catching are
more appropriate. Make sure you're the one who starts and ends
the game, not
the dog. Stop playing before the dog gets bored and is inclined
to try to
keep the ball or frisbee.
Where does your dog sleep? Not in your bedroom and especially
not on your
bed! Your bedroom is a special place - it's your "den". An alpha
dog thinks
he has a right to sleep in your den because he considers himself your
equal.
In fact, he may have already taken over your bed, refusing to get off
when
told or growling and snapping when anyone asks him to make room for
the
humans. Until your dog's alpha problems are fully under control,
the bedroom
should be off-limits! The same goes for sleeping on furniture.
If you can't
keep him off the couch without a fight, deny him access to the room
until his
behavior and training has improved.
Crate-training: Dog crates have 1,000 uses and working with an
alpha dog is
one of them. It's a great place for your dog to sleep at night,
to eat in and
just to stay in when he needs to chill out and be reminded that he's
a dog.
The crate is your dog's "den". Start crate training by feeding
him his dinner
in his crate. Close the door and let him stay there for an hour
afterwards.
If he throws a tantrum, ignore him. Don't let your dog out of
his crate until
he's quiet and settled. At bedtime, show him an irresistable
goodie, tell him
to SIT and when he does, throw the goodie into the crate. When
he dives in
for the treat, tell him what a good boy he is and close the door.
Graduating from Boot Camp: What's next?
Just like in the army, boot camp is really just an introduction to a
new
career and new way of doing things. A tour through boot camp
isn't going to
solve your alpha dog's problems forever. It's a way to get basic
respect from
a dog who's been bullying you without having to resort to physical
force.
How long should boot camp last? That depends on the dog.
Some will show an
improvement right away, others may take much longer. For really
tough
cookies, natural leaders that need constant reminders of their place
in the
pack, Alpha Dog Boot Camp will become a way of life. Social climbers
may need
periodic trips through boot camp if you get lax and accidentally let
them
climb back up a notch or two in the family pack order.
How do you know if you're making a difference? If boot camp has
been
successful, your dog should start looking to you for directions and
permission. He'll show an eagerness to please. Watch how
your dog approaches
and greets you. Does he come to you "standing tall", with his
head and ears
held high and erect? It may look impressive and proud but it
means he's still
alpha and you still have problems! A dog who accepts humans as
superiors will
approach you with his head slightly lowered and his ears back or off
to the
sides. He'll "shrink" his whole body a little in a show of submission.
Watch
how he greets all the members of the family. If he displays this
submissive
posture to some of them, but not others, those are the ones who still
need to
work on their own alpha posture and methods. They should take
him back
through another tour of boot camp with support from the rest of the
family.
Obedience Training:
Once your dog has begun to accept this new way of life and his new position
in
the family, you should take him through an obedience course with a
qualified
trainer. All dogs need to be trained and alpha dogs need training
most of
all! You don't have to wait until he's through with boot camp
to start this
training but it's important that he respects at least one member of
the family
and is willing to take direction from them.
Obedience class teaches you to train your dog. It teaches you
how to be
alpha, how to enforce commands and rules, how to get respect and to
keep it.
All family members who are old enough to understand and control the
dog should
participate in the class.
Obedience training is a lifelong process. One obedience course
does not a
trained dog make! Obedience commands need to be practiced and
incorporated
into your daily life. In a dog pack, the alpha animal uses occasional
reminders to reinforce his authority. Certain commands, like DOWN/STAY,
are
especially effective, nonviolent reminders of a dog's place in the
family pack
order and who's really in charge here.
A well-trained obedient dog is a happy dog and a joy to live with. Dogs
want
to please and need a job to do. Training gives them the opportunity
to do
both. A well-trained dog has more freedom. He can go more
places and do more
things with you because he knows how to behave. A well-trained
dog that's
secure in his place within the family pack is comfortable and confident.
He
knows what's expected of him. He knows his limits and who his
leaders are.
He's free from the responsibility of running the household and making
decisions. He's free to be your loving companion and not your boss.
He's free
to be a dog - what he was born to be and what he always wanted to be
in the
first place!
When You Need Professional Help:
If your dog has already injured you or someone else or if you are afraid
of
your dog, you should consult with a qualified professional dog trainer
or
behaviorist before starting Canine Boot Camp. Your dog should
also have an
exam by your vet to make sure there are no physical causes for his
behavior.
To find a qualified trainer or behaviorist near you, contact your veterinarian
or the American Kennel Club for a list of obedience training clubs
in your
area.
- ----This article was written by Vicki Rodenberg, Chairman of the Chow
Chow
Club Inc.'s Welfare Committee. Uploaded with permission from
the author, it
may be reproduced for non-profit purposes with author's credit given.
*******
Copyright 1996 - Must have written permission from
Judy Gustafson <judy@halcyon.com> before reprinting this SAMFANS
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